that silver lining

reds&blacks. there are so many simple ways to celebrate happiness and being together as a team is such a blessing. sweet or sour, altogether still a composition of strength. we just had a simple dinner-cum-cny celebration on eve of chapgohmei right after work and it was genuine good spirit.

part of the team, colleagues that make things happen and buildings gets built. duh! (: these are happy people that makes my day a breeze to go through.

...this person, a mentor, sometimes a friend, sometimes like a dad to me. im truly glad to have known him. a candid shot that seemed natural that we were all happy and high-for the right reasons! i love my colleagues!

no regrets

find something that you love. something that gets you so excited you cant wait to get out of bed in the morning. the money thing will come. i know so many people who have so much more money than i. they are miserable. it is so important to be happy.

Chris Gardner - The Pursuit of Happyness

20110214

...lay down, be still don't worry talk they will. i'll be loving you until morning's first light breaks tomorrow. i'll take care of you tonight.--we the kings

there has always been a steady stream of debate when it comes to vday. but why the hell does everybody make a big fuss out of a day made for loving. yes, everyday is supposed to be the same for love. vday is just another special day to commemorate love of any kinds.

on this day we learn about many things that people do for love, true love stories from near and far, heartbreaks, sweet memories, bitter experiences yadda yadda yadda. let's not talk about the sad part, for today and hopefully in the future. just dwell in this love-y day today (:

happy valentine's day people!

my version of valentine's day this time is a surprise of a so-called dinner date invitation from the boyfriend that comes with this bouquet of beautiful 9stalks. i hesitated for a while, knowing that i might not get my point across if i give in just like that. but this is an occasion to be merry. not significantly there for just once in a year, but here as a reminder for love. forgiveness and understanding is included in that context, so i might as well comply and be happy along. at least try to, and not make a big sucky day out of my life for anger-sake. sigh.

ps: so, let's see what is up tonight during the-date. am not expecting anything fancy, just quality time. hope it is that, and not any less.

such a small world we have, indeed.

it's fascinating that here in kota kinabalu, everybody seems to know everybody. friends, friends of friends, third degree friends, etc and the list goes neverending. but somehow, people seem to know people in our lives, in one way or another.

how do you deal with people you meet everyday, people you have known, or people who knows you? how do you retain a good relationship with everybody? i personally think, that as i grow older, people that i meet tend to change and then indirectly changes my approach to people too. i dont know if this is good or bad. you tell me?

im losing grip

january 31st

a day to remember. a date of simple bliss. if you ask me last year where i saw myself in a year and what would i be doing, i could quickly tell you that this wasnt it. well, this was not really something that i would have guessed or see myself doing in a normal circumstance. everything i am right now is nothing like i thought i would have been. the way things are in general are nothing like i thought they would be. to see people i i know so well becoming strangers, to see people who were once strangers to me means the world to me. seeing time fly by in the blink of an eye and feeling like nothing ever changes. feeling like everything has stayed the same throughout these days, yet looking back at where i was around this exact time last year and everything, different.

melt like a popsicle

i want you, and just you.

detour?

we have been together for so very long it seems to me like nothing will go wrong. but people tell me everyday that they know this boy wont stay. i would like to say that we are the exception and we will be the ones to last but i have seen how good things can end so fast. one day he would be officially mine and everything could be right but in a second it could slip and instantly, a fight. family and friends tell me i will be broken hearted but i cant help to think that theres no reason that this started. i tell people that i know we will end but i could never picture us being just friends. deep in my soul i guess i know that this love maybe is not meant to be but i like to think my your love is the only love for me.

painful thoughts

what you see, the mind plays it over and over again, and walla,

you have gotten yourself a built-in recorder!

caffeine&hypertension

tweeted more than i should, sometimes, but owh-well. twitter is meant for tweet-ing, loads! so there goes my facebook, almost untouched, just there for friend's updates, this and that. i pay a whole lot more attention to my other blogs, and babies nowadays. they become my haven, where i can be happily inspired and inspire. (:

fragments of ideas float around my brain as i tirelessly try to fit them together sometimes. with so many words in my head, i am always afraid of writing them down improperly. or forgetting them in the first place. i cannot seem to write fast enough because somehow a thought always gets lost.

old flames

i just couldnt believe fate. it just comes and goes and make or ruin things whenever and whereever possible. and i dont even get to think straight and have proper choices! how dope is that?

there is one more thing i couldnt bear to lose, besides losing my eyesight, was the ability to write and express my thoughts verbally with utmost absolute ways. i always sort of had my thoughts drafted out ll over my head, and then things just disappear every now and then when i needed to use it most. this actually pisses me off like being pushed over the cliff not knowing what to do next.

yea, dramatic as it could be, i think im slowly losing my flair in thoughts as i am slowly becoming more and more like a mechanically run walking/talking machine with no intention of being one in any way!

pfft, pathetic life.

the past came sweeping by

sometimes, i awake with the nostalgic after taste of something buried under the absurd depth of my memory. pleasant thoughts, sometimes bad. i dont know who i become at times when these beautiful reminiscence recur. i thought they happen just because, to just remind me of the existence of happiness in my life. once before.

what do you do, if happiness that should just remind you becomes reality that comes knocking at your door? what would you do if you were told to choose a path you might have chosen before and regretted?

just, what would you do, if you were me?

better days,y'all

recently, i am not me. just, not, me. i am being a part of here, there and everywhere.

so, instead of wasting that few pathetic minutes of your life looking at the computer screen and thinking of strategies to win the everlasting war, why not look me in the eyes--that few minutes, and make it like the best last few minutes of my life, for me.

dear you...

i adore, but i dont worship

people wont change until they either know enough, or hurt enough.

i think there is some truth in this quote.

we shall pass

...not because

it is better than nothing.

but because

it is better than everything.

...but sometimes you have got to look back and take the time just to think a little bit. about everything.

eleventh one, i know her story

you experience all these things, and they matter, they do; but they dont. i mean, they do but they really dont. it is nice to be my age and look at all of you and hear your conversations about everything happening in your lives. because when you reach the age when you know those thing in the past didnt really matter compared to what is now. i was so young, and so in love.

so young.

i wanna be the person you are scared to lose. but in between all that, i lose myself and i didnt even know. i wont cry. i will just say fuck you and cry.

raindrops&roses

im miles from where you are. i lay down on the cold ground and i, i pray that something picks me up and set me down in your warm arms.

okay, that apart, i think i am looking at my life currently with a different sight. maybe it is a good thing, that i dont dwell in bad things that are happening, and just going ahead with all steam through my days. maybe, just maybe this brings me a new perspective on what i really want in my life.

darling, i thought you give me strength. but no, i think i learnt from you that i have my own hidden strength that i have been deprived of using all these times. and i have them out now. just because you did not truly become my strength. thank goodness for that actually, that i dont just stumble and fall. because without you, and without my realization, i would have. died.

what is important

it is really nice when you talk to someone for the first time and you suddenly feel comfortable and at ease with them.

owh, and dear all, there is no reason you should tolerate other people being mean to you. even if they say they are doing it with love. make sure people know they should be nice to you and if they refuse, walk away from them.

please, always remember that.

it sucks, you know when everything is doing fine, and then it all crashes again. the worst part is, i dont really feel like putting it all back together again.

but i have to.

i.am.confused.

this is not just a crush. what I feel is more than a jumpy feeling when i receive a text from you. it is more than hearing your name and my heart would suddenly skip a beat. i want you to know, that you are someone special. someone that i dont want to lose. someone who makes me look forward to every day.

that happens. and i just wanted you to know.

i am trying to convince myself that, i should keep my distance from now on. i think that if i stay away from you, i will stop assuming and realize that there is nothing really special going on between us. i know it will be hard but if this is the only way to avoid myself from getting hurt, i will try to do it.

tumblr rawks

...sorry for the random rant. but i am in love with my tumblr blog right now. (:

if i keep my distance, will you notice? if i go away, will you come find me? i hate how you change instantly for an unknown reason. dont make me miss the old you, please.

change is a scary thing. everybody around me is changing. i am changing too, only to not realize it myself probably. but it hurts when they are changing not for the better. there are times when one can actually understand what is happening. i just have to look for that moment, of truth.

sometimes, you just sit at home and remember the old times. you laugh by yourself with a ridiculous smirk. then you have that one drop of tear running down your cheeks, because it all changed.

we are all in a circle going round and round and round

i will speak my mind, bluntly, honestly, lovingly, vulgarly. be dumb, embarrassing, pointless posts, and many things you might not approve. yet, if you decide to read this, and you decide you hate me, i dgaf because you know what? you dont actually have to click on this page. you didnt have to sit on your computer facing my posts. you can google anything, and i mean anything at all. if you would like.

first day of work 2011

i think there is a realization in me, at one point, that i have to achieve something better. for myself. when human relationship doesnt satisfy you as much as it was then, materials in life, in turn, provides to that satisfaction. that is when you actually can decide, your own future. maybe yes, i could too. like i always say, if it is meant to be, it will be. so if me being away-for the sake of improving my future and to get things i want without being dependent on another being, endangers our hope of being an item for always, then so be it. at least it proves to me- a tad earlier, that we wont work anyways someday. i really hope it wont happen though. i still secretly (not secret anymore) wish we will have our happily ever after, darling.

i love you.

*big sigh*

1.1.11

hey, i might not be able to heal you but at the very least im good for a laugh before you die.

happy new year 2011, people!

have a great big start in everything!

best wishes, from me to you. (:

paper carousel

i live in the mess you are; i could find out the truth if i just wasnt so blue. hmm, we are drinking in the sunlight, we are seeing if we can believe in the mess we are, conceive in the mess we are find peace in the mess we are...

im a mess.

may i say i loved you more? let's drink to memories we shared. down one to all the hopes and cares. here is two for being unaware that you're gone. because before too long you will be a memory.

tough love; if you dont actually believe, live and act like you are going to get everything you want in the universe then of course you are definitely not going to get it.

depressing melancoly

'angelic sister' she calls me, in the most sarcastic tone. if that is the respect i am getting, hell yea, im taking it in. awkward, but that is what you want.

im sick of carrying my whole world with me all the time. on my back, on my mind, in my heart. it weights my heart down. it has made me heavy. if i dont leave some of it behind, i will end up with a broken back, probably with a broken heart along with it.

blood will never be thinner than water. but that is what it is now. ego takes over the only person that i am legally blood-tied to. but hey, without the realization from deep inside her heart, things could never change. and so be it. i am helpless. go on, that is the way to happiness. i suppose.

this.broken.melody

today, we are one&ahalfyear-old together. rock bottom is where my day began; sat there, waiting for the green light to appear right beside your name, or the blinking orange light when messages came through. well, it wasnt a good sign where we are, but it certainly is true--the whole journey.

yes, i call us, the broken melody. because it sounded right. we were not like the very ideal of partners. we were not in the best situations always. we are just like day&night, sometimes we just dont meet at any point. but we just sound right, together. i dont know how, but after all, we are in love. that is the whole point.

i recalled what he said on christmas eve, just the other day. i secretly embed the whole thing and play it over and over again in my mind like it is the only thing that matters all my life. it will forever be remembered, up until that very day it all becomes my happily-ever-after story. i didnt expect that to come from you, dont know why. but you always seem to give me surprises at times i could not expect. that is good, catching me offguard, but good in terms of making me smile like a lunatic all throughout. even long after that very short moments that will stay on my memory, for life.

i love you, from the bottom of my heart, my gangsta'!

a picture taken on a typical weekend ride. us, for real. no pretense, nothing.

happy 18th monthsary, darling.

one & a half year tomorrow

it is just another day. at work. yes, but for me another day of being a thing is not easy. and for tomorrow, i am giving another big big love to a bigger day (than others, although everyday is such big days for us)

tomorrow, i cant believe we are so far past that one year dot.

let us see what more we can achieve! cheers! xoxo

...with intentions

i suppose you could fill in the word of your desire on the dots in my title.

just thought of sharing this;

Its funny how hello is always accompanied with good-bye

Its funny how remembering good memories can make you cry

Its funny how forever never seems to really last

Its funny how much you’d lose if you forgot your past

Its funny how friends can just leave you when you’re down

Its funny how when you need someone there never around

Its funny how people can change and think there so much better

Its funny how many lies can be packed into one love letter

Its funny how people can forgive even tho they cant forget

Its funny how one night can attain of so much regret

Its funny how crazy and ironic life turns out to be

but the funniest part of all is that none of that seems funny to me.

--Heather Noble

have a really good week, everyone! xoxo

pushy isnt good

how many times do we forgive someone just because we dont wanna lose them, even though they dont deserve our forgiveness?

if i die tonight, i dont want to know that you said you missed me. i dont want my family to know that there are important people in my life that are no longer in my life anymore. remember what i said about taking the wrong path. this might be just one example of what i was referring to. i will know who really misses me when i pass. i know who will always love me. i know people who i will always love in return and who i will always return for. dont cry, if i die tonight. dont scream. dont even think. like when i am living. i think a lot. and that has obviously made me miserable for the longest time. just, live.

gasoline rainbows

i am still so naive; i know pretty much what i like and dislike. but please, dont ask me who i am. a passionate, fragmentary girl, perhaps?

that thing, that moment, when you kiss someone and everything around becomes hazy and the only thing in focus is you and this person and you realize that that person is the only person that you’re supposed to kiss for the rest of your life, and for one moment you get this amazing gift and you want to laugh and you want to cry because you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared that that it will go away all at the same time. --Drew Barrymore

floating vibes

eventually, you just give up on everything.

if you really knew me, you would realize im not the girl i was before. i have been hurt, walked all over, used, and rejected. if you really knew me darling, you would know that i trusted you enough to let you into my life.

shut up, people, grow some balls and stop feeding me your words. i dont need a single word you say if it mean nothing to you what it meant to me. i hope you are happy though, poking through other people's life and just trying to make a mess out of happy people around. hmmph.

i think that relying on another person is the worst thing you can do. so i try not to. at the time it might seem like you have finally found the right person to fall back on and put your whole life into, but when they dont want that responsibility anymore everything will just come crashing down.

...just saying.

i do rely on people a lot, and on a lot of different people. i try to act tough, but sometimes at the most inappropriate times. the girl inside of me isnt just going to let me pull through hard times being alone. i just dont want to. i choose to share. what, is that a sin? i think not.

my repertoire, lately.

see i was always taught that boy meets girl

fall in love get married and forgets the world

9 months later, a sweet baby’s on the way

kiss her on the cheek and life OK.

-- anonymous.

i do not understand how, at the most desperate of times i somehow find the strength to cling onto life and simply embrace it. i can suddenly go from the desperation of negativity and hopelessness to the euphoria of optimism and possibility.

isnt that crazy? am i the only one? im always in these situations!

contagious radiation

i am in love with my boyfriend. we have been dating for close to 18 months now. i love him with all my heart, but i am starting to miss the world sometimes, the idea of being out there. i dont know why. i dont know what to do anymore. what is wrong with me and what am i thinking? how can i even be so unaware of the very state that we are in right now, whether it is going through the long haul or not. i am really unsure. he is just so confident with everything, like even when the sky is about to fall off. yea, maybe he might be able to just push everything hell-away with his very big temper and stance, but hey, i dont know if i could go through these days without fearing for the future. seriously.

my boyfriend says

...a lot of things.

some of it makes me fly, some of it makes me wanna just go bang a wall. but things he says, i can smile or cry the whole time thinking about it. it is bad, when i come to think of it. it makes me fear for the worse, and laugh like a hippy. i dont know what is reality and what is a dream anymore, sometimes. he just makes and breaks me.

im giving this whole lot of shit a longer time. for whatever, im not sure. i just want to. i think i just couldnt think of a reason to leave, and that is bad. really.

the me before? pfft. i would bail at the slightest discomfort, the slightest boredom, the slightest annoyance. but this? too much, and yet im going through it all. it is the harshes thing to have ever happen i would say, but i just dont know why.

what the hell ?!

read:one-hello-world

it is one hell of a world out there. we have got to stand firm and prove our points if we were to exist, and not just being. accomplish small tasks as if they were great&noble, everybody!

im nostalgic for the hands which never intertwined and cheeks never blush and feelings never understood, but mostly, for the love that was never shared. i have taken up falling in love with rivers and mountains and other beautiful things when we could not find each other, and then the dreams that i have exploded with words i thought for everything. so many things in life we all could have had interest in. most of us knows things, but not a lot knows most things i realize. it is a scary world out there. there is just too much to know, to learn, to be happy and at the same time afraid of. it shocks me to find out about new things every single day, and it still amazes me.

everything happens for a reason. people change, so you can learn to let go. things go wrong so you can learn to appreciate them when they go right. you believe lies so that you will eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and hopefully your other half, or however that goes. and sometimes, good things fall apart so better things can fall together. this is often said, but not many can actually do and believe just that. i think we might as well just go on living in this hell of a world, good or bad.

endlessly fascinating

i am a bitch.

i have a mouth that will ramble on for days about what i believe, about why you are wrong, about why i am right. i have a mouth that will ramble on about how i should and shouldnt be treated. i have a mentality of a age that is not my own, the number fluctuates like stockmarket. i have the body of a girl. i have a heart of a woman who is loved before, who has been hurt before. i have a mind that has seen this and witnessed that. i have these ears that has heard my crying late at night. i have these eyes, these eyes that have witnessed my own hurting, these eyes that has witnessed my growth, these eyes that have witnessed my success, these eyes that have witnessed everything i have felt, everything i have dealt with physically, verbally, and mentally. i have this heart that has never been broken, but has always been sewn back together. i have these knees that have let me fall but have let me stand all over again. i have these hands that have wiped my tears at night when i thought everything in the world was gone and done with. i am strong which is why i am a bitch. i am sensitive which is why i care so much for things that i bug all the time. i am passionate which is why i put my love into something full force no stopping. i am quiet which is why i have so many thoughts running through my mind because they have not yet to be expressed verbally, only mentally. i am loud when needed because i do not take shit from anyone because i believe i deserve the best. i am insecure but that doesnt mean i am not confident in other ways. i am everything i come off to be and everyone that has hurt me, abandoned me, pushed me away has made me. made me stronger, made me even more of a bitch, made me even more of a person who wont take shit from anyone, and has made me into a person who knows exactly what she is worth.

so, call me a bitch again. shame on you. a bitch is this, and so much more.

kampung days over

there is a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it is not giving up. it is only realizing that you dont need certain people and their crap.

you are going to lose people in your life, no matter what. and i realize no matter how much time you spend with them, or how much you appreciate them or tells them so, it will never seem like it will ever be enough. eventually, people leaves. and you start a new cycle all over again. one thing for sure, being able to have certain people in your life, without the consideration of time and love spent, is a blessing in itself.

there are some people in life that makes you laugh a little louder, smile a little wider, and live a little bit better. no matter how little, it is definitely better!

ps: it has been great having a getaway weekend at the suburb, where it is almost like a whole new world and i get to find/know new stuff almost daily. im blessed to have the best of both worlds, old & new. amen.

i dreamt. good?

...dreams that brought back memories im not so fond of. dreams that wakes you up and leaves you in no state to be having anymore slumber. dreams, that wakes sorrow. *gahh*

i even lie in my diaries. i embellish things and write my feelings out of proportion. in reality, i am a simple content girl with a decent looking future. but my diary doesnt have to always know that. sometimes i write what i wish i felt. and that progresses into something tangible, sometimes.

life is not bad at all, if we could all stop exaggerating. but everybody exaggerates. that is why life is so hard for us. those who take it easy feels life as it is, taking chances and being free from projections from the bad side of the mind.

i have so many violent emotions for you. it is you. it has always been you.

i guess i just realized this, quite odd but rather late. dont you think? since you are not quite new to me anymore my dear...

definitely maybe

you want the truth? well, here it is;

eventually, you will forget it all. first you forget everything you learned - the dates of wars and Pythagorean theorem. you especially forget everything you didnt really learn, but just memorized the night before. you forget the names of all but one or two of your favorite teachers, and eventually you forget those, too. you forget your junior year class schedule and where you used to sit and your best friend's home phone number and the lyrics to that song you must have played a million times. and eventually, but slowly, you forget your humiliations - even the ones that seem indelible, just fade away. you forget who was cool and who was not, who was pretty, smart, athletic, and not. who went to a good college. who threw the best parties. who had the most friends. you forget all of them. even the ones you said you loved, and the ones you eventually did. they are the last to go. then, once you have forgotten enough, you love someone else...

someone who is gonna stay, now and forevermore.

that, in perpetual existence.

inevitably misread

owh emm gee. could you please not follow every single thing that i do just because you cannot get over the fact that everybody has a past, girl? you, your boyfriend, your parents, everybody! for goodness sake! i suggest you get the hint and leave me alone, and not make yourself look even worse than now. i pity you. why? because you could not let go. appreciate what you have now, dont go looking for faults and everything else could come in and happy ending ensures.

this may be an odd question, but do you know what you are doing right now?

let me tell you what,

after all these while if you still dont get it, or wont ever get it, im out of this mess. like since forever. i dont even care what you do with your life anymore. just. leave. me. alone. thankyou.

sophisticated, not complicated.

i like you, no, i love you. you put up with all my bullshit, darling. : )

love is just a slogan. the relationship, the person you have, is everything. i have been waking up in the middle of the night with horrid feelings of un-ending un-sureness. but yet, he is still the one.

i guess he is that one person who will always be in my heart, he is that person who i would like to keep for the rest of my life. he is that person who i will always love, and will never have the will and strength to move on from. he is that person who i will always remember of making me feel special and of believing in me when no one else would. he is that person who will always make me giddy and make me smile brightly and widely. he is that person who will always understand me, or try to(?). he is that person who i will always get along with(by hook or by crook). he is that person who i cant imagine my life without. he is that person...

yiktian is that one person.

raising the bow

recently i have started to familiarize with some awesome online games! dragonica and infinite aion, both are very interesting and im hooked! in dragonica, i chose to be an archer in it and named myself cocoracha. wootz. lately it is all that i play. infinite aion is so graphically beautiful, (you could have wings like angels in it and fly gracefully) but i have been neglecting it for a bit just to catch up with levels in dragonica. pathetic, talking about online games, like now, but i havent been playing anything online all my life. like, seriously. therefore, bear with me on future posts about me telling you my progress in those godawfully-addictive games. teehee.

well, this isnt the best poster i could find but these are the main four types of characters. lol. magician, archer, warrior and priest. then, each evolves into something else in higher levels. okay, i know i sound so immature talking about this game but yes, it is addictive!

try it!

despicable me, yeah me.

friendship isnt about who you have known the longest. it is about who came and never left. it is always misleading, how your defenses left low on a friendship turns out to eat you alive. making you believe less. nowadays, with internet-everythingeverything, people add or delete with complete ease. easily mistaken for garbage piled at the bin. you can crap the hell out at a person, and act as they never existed the next minute. how fragile is the meaning of friendship now? do they even bear enough significance to continue being used for the sake of fake human emotions? pfft.

i, personally am truly disappointed by these acts that i have experienced first-hand and has also seen happened to people around me. so i would strongly recommend to give yourselves a higher emotional defense before letting anybody in, and i truly mean anybody. there will never be any harm to be more cautious and even rude(sometimes) when it comes to guarding your trust.

first of december

my black ribbon ring is officially broken and lost. sigh. the one fake ring that i have liked. happy first of december people! it is the last month of the year 2010 and major panic for another new year is coming! how time flies...

again, it is about time(all over again). heck it was always about time. nothing else. what is there to complain when it has always been static, it is only us changing? time has just been going on and on and on, doing its mundane routine, or job, or whatever it is doing.

if you are lucky enough to be different, dont ever change.

-taylor swift

wasting youth away.not!

so here i am. my fingers are running over the keys of time, the proof of time at least. noting things that i thought and saw and hear and feel. my words are slowed by time they are deliberate and cautious. i would love to report to time itself that i have figured it out, that humanity in me has managed to learn something, anything. i must unfortunately report that the atrocities of the past are only being reinvented, modernized and sold as something new to fresh minds who dont know any better. probably like me, i might still be...

it has become apparent that no matter the warnings of our past we are fated. so here it is, my letter;

dear time,

i dont know if you can hear me, but i can see you. i have seen the darkness left in your eyes from the hatred of mankind. i have also seen your hope this time we will get it right. i know how vastly insignificant i am, especially considering your infinite nature. one sigh from you is a hundred lifetimes. i know. i am writing to tell you that i didnt want to live forever like it is infinite. i just wanna live enough. just enough, nothing more. i want enough time for my childhood(thank you), my youth(i hope) and my future to live. these, i pledge to you. dont give up on me yet.

signed with utmost reverence,

lainelwk nov2010

i dont know if this counts as a wish, or a hope or what. but it is something i had wanted to look/read back one day. to know that i have fulfilled or not.

jing-a-ling-a-ling-a-linggg

yeay! (genuine joy) christmas in in a month time! cant wait! what are your christmas wish this year? as for myself, im asking for a lot of things. it isnt about being greedy, but at least something gets granted in the end?

last year, i went for christmas carolling. this year, i didnt manage to join any practise and meetings. emarald is in the middle of her struggle for stpm. it is not very nice going without her. (not sarcastic, this is sincere)

so, here is to the whole advent season. happy times! always...

november28th

it hasnt been any fancy shmancy date kinda day, but there is lots of laughter and love all round. that is what that matters i guess, to get you through to the next day. i grew up fables fed by disney fairytale stories, like these;


...and i bet a lot of you too. i have always had admiration of characters in those fairytales, yes, not envy, just admiration for the stories of somebody's life perhaps, that inspired each and every piece of these fables to be written and made.

today i have watched tangled, an adaptation of rapunzel- the princess who has magic long hair. there is just so much you can comment on a movie, which i think most of it you would be keeping in your heart. the interpretations, the warmth that you felt right out of a heartwarming one, those sensitive points in the movie that touched your heart and feelings and only you and you alone could feel it for yourself. yes, i am being very emo right now talking about all these, but yes again, i feel compelled to put these thoughts and pictures in here for this. just for the record.

ooh, i lovvvvvvvve maximus the horse! adorable! of course, as well as the other characters, i found really amusing! as always, disney never disappoints. i really appreciate how movies could make you feel so good, as it could alter your emotions in many ways. 3d for cartoons might not be as real, just yet, but i guess living in fancy shmancy land almost being able to be inside it is something to giggle upon. just for kicks, sit at the front-most row. you will get what i mean ;P

after today, i actually had a tiny little bit of better understanding about certain things in him. yes, it still bugs me after all these while why i am over-reacting over small matters. no, it hasnt been well on me in any way for being so paranoid about everything. i suppose in every relationship there are perks and downsides of it. so yes, i have gotten that part. next, i will just have to accept it and go with the flow. yes, go with the flow.


ps: i realised that i have used a lot of yes in this post. perhaps i should implement it into my life, just this once. yes, i probably should.

a subtle collision

some people are just too lucky. they live in the moment just because they can. and the rest of us had to make ourselves live in the moment, and had to unconsciously think ahead because we have to. such a pity that not everyone acknowledges their luck and advantages that they take for granted. this pains me, because there is so much i could do with such luck, seeing it right here right now. yes, i figured people would retaliate by saying you wont be thinking this way if it was you having all that goodies. and yes too, that i might be different, given the life that is different because the way of thinking might change altogether. but what im saying is, what could possibly change, if your heart is sincere and thinking all things true under any circumstances you will still want to live well and be fulfilled with the best your life has to offer-- whether you are privileged or not.

i am a curse and i am a sound

you called me a bitch like i should be shocked or something. seriously, the word bitch doesnt hurt. it just shows the exact person that you are, calling names just to win a war that you have made out for yourself. nothing is what it seems, people make things look or sound good or bad. and honestly, it is all getting to me. the conscience and the revelation of what i have always been bothered about.

have you ever been in a situation that you really dont know what to do at the moment of time, but glad that you just didnt go all the way doing something silly? i just felt i did that a lot of times before and realizing it, makes the best of my day today. i guess some things really takes time. at least now i know, and trying to understand more is the best thing i could do for myself. not making a big scene back then you could have save a lot more than a friendship, if not just the heart. really...

uninterested&wide awake

fine line between love and hate.

the opposite is apathy; when both hurt too much.- anna

my guy says that the second most unbearable pain is toothache. second to the very excruciating heart attack pain. and i am having exactly the one that is a far from life-threatening, but causes pain so bad i could have had to bang walls and die in the middle of the night. wisdom toothache, the dentist said that it should be taken out. i dont understand why when it is growing perfectly normal, straight and out the gums just have to swell and make problem for it to come out big, white and mighty. okay, exaggeration there. i just dont understand why must it be taken out and why does it have to grow if it is meant to be taken out?pfft. how did people survive in those times before dentists were available?

i've got clouds in my head, dreams in my skies.

i wanna be rich. money, yes, but physically and emotionally too.buy myself a huge loft in new york. get freakin artsy-fartsy. buy tonnes of ice-cream...and effin live!

well yeah, i am living. having more in life to think and have is not a bad thing. we are all subjected to disappointments. for me, i would cry over it, sulk, ramble on and on and on, complain and complain, then suck it in. yea, that is about it. then i would start wondering what is next.

i constantly wonder how my life looks like in other people's eyes. do they think i have it easy? do they think i have nothing going on for myself? or are they wondering what i am wondering too? the thing is that no one will ever know my whole story. no one will ever know the things i have had to overcome--not even my closest friends or my family. it has always been a personal affair. the thing is that people are always so quick to judge. you can only see a person from what they want and allow you to see. i always try to look as put together as i can, and i guess that is my way of hiding from the truth. this scares me sometimes, that nobody will ever understand why i am the way i am. it is such a nice thing if everybody has an understanding of what others go through, rather than having prejudice and inaccurate judgments. i wonder, when will this ever happen. maybe it will never happen at all...