all. that. crap!
everybody should stop living on magnifying glass! how many of us actually pay attention to the big picture?
Sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave.Being lonely, being alone, for many people...sucks; but still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are is worse.
Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with. Maybe a happy ending doesn't include someone, maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future.
And maybe the happy ending is just moving on.
Or maybe the happy ending is this; knowing after all the unreturned understandings, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment...you never gave up hope and waited for the sun to shine through and it is a brand new day with brand new people to meet again.
everybody should stop living on magnifying glass! how many of us actually pay attention to the big picture?
Sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave.Being lonely, being alone, for many people...sucks; but still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are is worse.
Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with. Maybe a happy ending doesn't include someone, maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future.
And maybe the happy ending is just moving on.
Or maybe the happy ending is this; knowing after all the unreturned understandings, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment...you never gave up hope and waited for the sun to shine through and it is a brand new day with brand new people to meet again.
life is too short to wake up with regrets. so love the people who treat you right. forget about the ones who dont. although everybody is equal and noone is unworthy of care and love, there are just so much we can do about people who are not true and unworthy of our understandings anymore. believe everything happens for a reason. if you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. if it changes your life, let it. nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. like i said, things wont be easy, but i just promised myself i would make it all worth while. for as long as it can be...
"Friends are like balloons; once you let them go, you cant get them back."
but for a person more than a friend, i'm so gonna tie him to my heart so i never lose him, EVER!
this.is.my.side.of.the.tale...yours?
how many of us actually pay attention to the big picture? --> have you then? have you really see the big picture of how things gona be b4 u decide? :)
ReplyDeletemy belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are is worse.--> is it mean the one ve reli made feel shitty and really dont honor thus u left him then? I see. Sad to know that i have done shit which noone appreciated.
life is too short to wake up with regrets. so love the people who treat you right.--> have you regret ma? there were people treat u right,have u love them with full heart and faithful?
forget about the ones who dont.--> Hell yea. :D
believe everything happens for a reason--> always remember u said " is there anything must have reason?" "why must have reason?"i dont think you really believe of wat you quoted.
for a person more than a friend, i'm so gonna tie him to my heart so i never lose him--> thanks for tie-ing me no more. u lose me? ever? :D
p/s:questions with ur sentences and little comment here. Nothing abt hurt.*read it perusal*
Yea crap it is with the "happy ending"..
yea, i lose you. but it will be for the better for both of us. cuz until now u still dont understand, and keep arguing on all this? arent you tired? cuz i am...
ReplyDeletebare in mind that i am not argue-ing anything. I was just simply comment on what you have wrote. You ve done alot of things that arent same as what you wrote,i felt. You said word beautifully and do things different way.
ReplyDeleteI might understand what ve done for us is good for both of us. You the one nvr understand that the mess you brought to me and the way u love as what you commit ed..is really disappointing. thus, no one really take your way of settled mess. simply same as what u faced b4 me of flings or shits. Nvr improved.
Have you really spoke what the intention or purpose or will of what u have decide or have done? and expect people understand you? If i really smart enough to read your random minded?
Yea i am tired. i commented coz i dun take of what you said abt happy ending. it nvr be. You simply screwed my dream of true love, of what is commitment of love. True love have to be faithful enough. Have you? Embrace with other guy? happy ending? funny.
Tats you. :)*sigh*
i hv done what i think and said. just that you never see it and never understand.i screwed your dreams? okay. if that is what u think, then the it's the more proof that the relationship is not worth it right? that i never gave you dreams and happiness. :) faithfulness, there's a lot of ways to seeing it. and it is your way now, seeing mine.
ReplyDeleteWhatever. You nvr understand how bad feeling i am n nvr understand the true meaning of being faithful. N u stil could saying i purposely hurt you while you made action n decision of things, as i just express my emo on u of how bad feeling i am ,
ReplyDeleteI und you moved on is good for u. I just dun take it ur way of moving on and the way you showed me in public. We werent puppy love but with the commitment of marriage.
n i simply dun take abt wat u said abt happy ending.
itz always worth to have u but .. sigh.
Could you really talk to me nice with love like b4. your tone changed. the way u talked changed.have you really tell me in words abt how bad feeling u r, how much love u were to me n wishing me good as we lost each other this n tat? instead of nonchalant on me n made me dun und u ? instead of saying crap in blog as wat u said nvr link to what u have done to me?i duno.
please delete all the comments here. thanks.
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