post-hiatus talk

to decide if he is worth it -- is like poking needle on free air. aimless, but not totally clueless. what decides a person's worth? what concludes a reason, whatever it may be? what makes one totally disposable, after all it took to get into the relationship?

all relationships require work, but not all relationships deserve it. we should ask ourselves are we naturally drifting apart?

reason being, simple, sometimes some relationships reach a natural end.

we should ask ourselves if we are sure at all that it is worth the fight because sometimes panic can drive us into saving a relationship even when we are not really into it anymore.

we can find great relationships with people we ordinarily never would have considered. they just might be someone worth having in your life. worth having does not determine the duration of the relationship, but it might as well be a proper justification that one could go far - as to have its worth.

so, sometimes being against our better judgment good things could appear. 

i try not to put arbitrary limits on myself&partner based on what other people suggest. if i am dating, i just date. whatever that goes wrong, or right, i rely on my own instincts to let the relationship take its natural course. i think dating should proceed naturally; we should never have put an expiration date on it. there are no actual standard timeline for a relationship to work out. every relationship is unique to its respective lovers. take Rose&Jack from the well-known Titanic. the timeline for their relationship from meeting till death do them part, is less than a week all in all! talk about now&forever...


yes, i have split from my supposedly forever-love for almost a year now. he is happily (i assume) married with a beautiful girl now. i wish him well.

...and my next forever-love, just happened. let's choose joy, today, and now. just live.